I read a survey recently
that said only one percent of expats stay longer than ten years. I guess then for the first time in my life, I can tell my
parents Im in the top percentile.
All
that seniority should give me an insight or two into the Dutch but only barely. Sometimes, I think theyre dead easy to figure
out, but other times they are confounding in their ability to defy definition.
They
fall into categories, to be sure, though even those are loosely defined. Imagine a room full of representatives from this
little country. What would they look like? What are they all about?
Ill
tell you. But to be perfectly clear, this is a simplification of a very complex society, written with tongue firmly in cheek.
Nevertheless, they say there is always a grain of truth in stereotypes. Decide for yourself.
The
Ex-Student
This
young man aspires to be director of ABN-AMRO, but is more likely to be an unemployed dot-commer. Wearing his signature expensive
brown shoes, button-down shirt and Micky Mouse socks (to demonstrate fun), he can often be seen imbibing great quantities
of beer in Amsterdam Zuid while subtly preening his hair. Dont be fooled that devil-may-coiffe is carefully constructed to
give the correct impression of unrestrained bounty.
The
Supermodel
Many
Dutch women are convinced theyre beautiful, regardless of what the beholder thinks. This model of dubious pulchritude can
often be spotted in her Anastasia outfit, bowling down anyone who gets in her way. Her trademark bicycle bell rings to warn
you of her approach better be fast, or youll get sideswiped by a dirty look. Often seen in KLM stewardess uniforms, their
trademark expression is dat kan niet. Frequently the target of Ex-Students.
The
Old Money Man
Calvinism
has instilled in the Dutch a sense that it is gauche to flaunt it. So the wealthy have to settle for small, but by no means
subtle, tokens of status. Note the model number removed from the Mercedes (as if we didnt know it was a Mercedes), the coat-of-arms
pinky ring or the carefully-frayed designer digs. Rarely seen in the Netherlands, because theyre usually in Switzerland or
France where they can really show it off with the second wife. Not to be confused with the New Money Man.
The
New Money Man
With
Wesley Snipes as his role model, this guy can usually be found cruising Amsterdam's PC Hoofdstraat with an anorexic, tanned
Barbie by his side. Fond of Porsches and BMWs, this guys not ashamed to let you know hes loaded, with money and who knows
what else. Dont ask him what he does for a living.
Sjonnie
& Anita
Sjonnie
is a pet name for Jan, worn by the guy who showed up three days late to fix your dishwasher, told you hed be back but never
returned. He and Anita like to take their trailer to the Dutch mountains to go camping with all their neighbours, where they
eat Hagelslag and talk about how great it is to get away from it all. Fans of shag cigarettes and white pants, and in Anitas
case a good set of fake nails, these two met at the broodjesspeciaalzaak and dream of having a big, white boat.
The
Socialist
Earns
a decent living as part-time editor of an environmental magazine with revenues derived entirely from EU subsidies, and doesnt
tell anyone s/he pays only 200 per month for that social housing flat on the canal. The Socialist is an all-too-abundant leftover
of the sixties and seventies, a slayer of cars, tourists and all things commercial. Except for their old crap, which theyll
sell you at inflated prices given the chance. Usually spotted wearing their trademark burlap sack (to carry groceries), these
types are fond of city councils, and parking fines for people who work.
The Old Lady
Mevrouw
de Bruin has seen it all. Better finish everything on your plate, or youre likely to provoke a lecture on the hongerwinter,
in 1944, when the Nazis took all the Dutch food and let them starve. She hasnt forgiven them, nor does she forgive you for
whatever youve done to incur her wrath. Stay clear of her shopping buggy as Mevrouw carefully counts out the coins from her
purse to buy that seniors tram ticket. Cant trust the conductors to make the right change.